LOVE is a four letter word?

Well of course Love is a four letter word, but I'm meaning do we think of it as a bad thing when we're not in a relationship.  Hell no would be answer for me!  I thought I would write a little short blog on love.

Love hasn't alightened on my shoulder yet, maybe it will maybe it won't, if you read my previous blogs you'll understand, my experience of men shall we say was a little tarnished due to being beaten up and I'm saying it again because I want all the people who are out there right now to think it's not just me, Julie is a normal girl it happened to her.

Enough of that though, what I wanted to express in this blog is that although chances have been offered to me in this life I've not taken them up, but know I am ready to take on those chances.  A woman of 38 saying she's willing to take a chance, yes, you are right I have left it a bit late, but who is to say what is around the corner, my prince might come now, in 10 years time or never.  It's about being happy and secure enough in myself that's important it's a corny old saying but to let others love you you really have to love yourself and how many of us do that.  Jewels raises her hand!  I do!

So many of you will have had good experiences and I think that's fantastic and wish you all the luck in the world on your journey through life with the one that you hold dear, for those who have had their world tarnished by others, my advice though I am ABSOLUTELY no expert on matters of the heart is to stop trying to look for love.  If love wants to seek you out it will, you can of course try all the usual things like going out to bars, dating sites but in my opinion we all have a destiny, a path that has been laid out in front of us, if that path is winding and a bit rocky I'm sorry about that but if you're path is filled with gold I'm happy for you too.

Love is a four letter word, but in the best sense of it, I'm happy being me right now, should someone come knocking now I would let them in, also I'm not one of those clingy birds I think that's a mistake a lot of women make they don't let men be themselves or try to change them or if you are in a gay relationship just change the wording around.

Be yourself, just be, people love you for the energy you give off, you give off positive vibes you get them back tenfold in my experience now.

Jewels xxxxx

A strange little blog but I thought about it this morning and this is very off the cuff just like all my writing is, it comes from the heart - don't all the best things comes from there?